| Groom | Bride | Date | County | Notes |
| Robert Sanders | Verlinchey W Elam | 06 Jul 1801 | Caswell | |
| Robert Elam | Betsy Carrol | 14 Mar 1804 | Caswell | |
| David Thomas | Patience Elam | 21 Apr 1807 | Caswell | |
| Alexander Elam | Betsey | 01 Sep 1815 | Rutherford | |
| Thomas Elam | Elizabeth Elam | Apr 1816 | Rutherford | Thomas and Elizabeth were cousins.
Elizabeth was the sister of Anderson Elam. Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Hunt Wagstaff | Francess Elam | 09 Apr 1817 | Rutherford | |
| Alexander Elam | Charlotte Gerke | 18 Oct 1824 | Cumberland | |
| Robert Williams | Nancey Elam | 06 Feb 1825 | Caswell | |
| Bird Buckingham | Frances Elam | 24 Mar 1834 | Caswell | |
| Jackson Tune | Sarah J Elam | 25 Aug 1838 | Granville | |
| Jackson Toomi | Sarah J.Elam | 25 Aug 1838 | Granville | |
| Thomas J Elam | Susan _____ | 21 Mar 1843 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| William Thomas Elam | Cornelia Royster | 04 Apr 1844 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Fancis Lattimore | Sophia Jane Elam | 30 Jul 1844 | Rutherford | Sophia later married Charles Gold.
Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Silas Shelby Elam | Nancy Rosalin Fennel | 28 Jul 1846 | Rutherford | This family was in Rutherford but the marriage actually took place
in SC
Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| W H Holland | Charlotte F Elam | 05 Jan 1848 | Cumberland | |
| Neill Smith | Eliza N Elam | 17 Jul 1850 | Cumberland | |
| Robert Dodd | Frances W Elam | 21 Sep 1853 | Cumberland | |
| James Elam | Elizabeth Casper | 04 Nov 1854 | Rowan | |
| Alexander S Newton | Mary S Elam | 04 Dec 1855 | Granville | |
| George Anderson Elam | Mary Malvina Ford | 19 Aug 1858 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Rufus Webb Gardner | Sarah Dobbins Elam | 17 Jul 1861 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Samuel Weatherford Elam | Martha Jane McCall | 1862 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Walter Watson | Virginia N Elam | 22 Dec 1863 | Cumberland | |
| Henry M Moore | Jane E Elam | 24 Feb 1864 | Granville | |
| Ruffin Stone | Harriet Elam | 02 Jun 1865 | Granville | |
| George Elam | Leathy Burwell | 23 Dec 1865 | Granville | |
| Philip Ramseur Elam | Mrs. Mary Barber Crawford | 1867 | Rutherford | Source: Anderson Elam Bible |
| Charles F Currin | Martha A Elam | 06 Oct 1868 | Granville |