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Here is a reprint of an
editorial from a Romanian Newspaper that was circulated by the US Forces
Command Public Affairs Office. The language is occasionally awkward due to
translation, but the meaning is unmistakable.
An Ode to America
Why are
Americans so united? They don't resemble one another even if you paint
them! They speak all the languages of the world and form an astonishing
mixture of civilizations. Some of them are nearly extinct, others are
incompatible with one another, and in matters of religious beliefs, not
even God can count how many they are.
Still, the
American tragedy turned almost three hundred million people into a hand
put on the heart. Nobody rushed to accuse the White House, the army, the
secret services that they are only a bunch of losers. Nobody rushed to
empty their bank accounts. Nobody rushed on the streets nearby to gape
about. The Americans volunteered to donate blood and to give a helping
hand. After the first moments of panic, they raised the flag on the
smoking ruins, putting on t-shirts, caps and ties in the colors of the
national flag. They placed flags on buildings and cars as if in every
place and on every car a minister or the president was passing. On every
occasion they started singing their traditional song: "God Bless America!"
Silent as a
rock, I watched the charity concert broadcast on Saturday once, twice,
three times, on different TV channels. There were Clint Eastwood, Willie
Nelson, Robert deNiro, Julia Roberts, Cassius Clay, Jack Nicholson, Bruce
Springsteen, Sylvester Stallone, James Wood, and many others whom no film
or producers could ever bring together. The American's solidarity spirit
turned them into a choir.
Actually, choir
is not the word. What you could hear was the heavy artillery of the
American soul. What neither George W. Bush, nor Bill Clinton, nor Colin
Powell could say without facing the risk of stumbling over words and
sounds, was being heard in a great and unmistakable way in this charity
concert. I don't know how it happened that all this obsessive singing for
America didn't sound croaky, nationalist, or ostentatious! It made you
green with envy because you weren't able to sing for your country without
running the risk of being read chauvinist, ridiculous, or suspected of
who-knows-what mean interests.
I watched the
live broadcast and the rerun of its rerun for hours listening to the story
of the guy who went down one hundred floors with a woman in a wheelchair
without knowing who she was, or of the Californian hockey player, who
fought with the terrorists and prevented the plane from hitting a target
that would have killed other hundreds or thousands of people. How on earth
were they able to bow before a fellow human? Imperceptibly, with every
word and musical note, the memory of some turned into a modern myth of
tragic heroes. And with every phone call, millions and millions of dollars
were put in a collection aimed at rewarding not a man or a family, but a
spirit, which nothing can buy.
What on earth
can unite the Americans in such a way? Their land? Their galloping
history? Their economic power? Money? I tried for hours to find an answer,
humming songs and murmuring phrases, which risk of sounding like
commonplaces. I thought things over, but I reached only one conclusion.
Only freedom can
work such miracles.

In memory of all those
who perished this morning; the passengers and the pilots on the United Air
and AA flights, the workers in the World Trade Center and the Pentagon,
and all the innocent bystanders. Our prayers go out to the friends and
families of the deceased.
IF I KNEW
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.
For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.
There will always be another day
to say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance
to say our "Anything I can do?"
But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,
That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear
Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.

Daddy's Day
Her hair was up in a ponytail, her favorite dress
tied with a bow.
Today was Daddy's Day at school and she couldn't
wait to go.
But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably
should stay home.
Why the kids might not understand if she went to
school alone.
But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say.
What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there
today.
But still her mother worried, for her to face this
day alone.
And that was why once again, she tried to keep her
daughter home.
But the little girl went to school, eager to tell
them all.
About a dad she never sees, a dad who never calls.
There were daddies along the wall in back for
everyone to meet.
Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their
seats.
One by one the teacher called a student from the
class
To introduce their daddy as seconds slowly passed.
At last the teacher called her name, every child
turned to stare.
Each of them was searching for a man who wasn't
there.
Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out.
She probably doesn't have one," another student
dared to shout.
And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy
say,
Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste
his day."
The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at
her Mom.
And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go
on.
And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to
speak.
And out from the mouth of a child came words
incredibly unique
"My Daddy couldn't be here because he lives so far
away.
But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such
a special day.
And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to
know.
All about my daddy and how much he loves me so.
He loved to tell me stories, he taught me to ride my
bike.
He surprised me with pink roses and taught me to fly
a kite.
We used to share fudge sundaes and ice cream in a
cone.
And though you cannot see him, I'm not standing here
alone.
"Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are
apart
I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my
heart"
With that, her little hand reached up, and lay
across her chest.
Feeling her own heartbeat beneath her favorite dress
And from somewhere in the crowd of dads, her mother
stood in tears.
Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond
her years.
For she stood up for the love of a man not in her
life.
Doing what was best for her, doing what was right.
And when she dropped her hand back down, staring
straight into the crowd
She finished with a voice so soft, but its message
clear and loud.
"I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star.
And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too
far.
But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he
never went away.
"And then she closed her eyes and saw him there that
day.
And to her mother's amazement, she witnessed with
surprise.
A room full of daddies and children, all starting to
close their eyes.
Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what
they felt inside.
Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her
side.
"I know you're with me Daddy," to the silence she
called out.
And what happened next made believers of those once
filled with doubt.
Not one in that room could explain it, for each of
their eyes had been closed.
But there on the desk beside her was a fragrant
long-stemmed pink rose.

And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by
the love of her shining bright star.
And given the gift of believing, that heaven is
never too far.
~ By
Cheryl Costello-Forshey ©2000 ~
Used with
permission
Daddy's Day was
published in the books
Chicken Soup for the Parent's Soul
and Stories for a Teen's Heart 2
May
not be copied or reproduced in any form without the written
consent of the author




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