EARLY DAYS ON THE CEDAR CREEK
- by Mary May Clayton Stover
footnotes by Rod Stover on a separate page to reduce clutter...
..corrections, expansions, insertions, etc. ,
denoted by brackets such as [.... - RRS]
- Introduction by Allen J Stover
- Gram's letter
The following history, humor and happenings were written in March of 1965 by my Mother, May Clayton Stover at the request of one of her grand-daughters, Nancy Rodehorst Wick, who wanted to know something of the history of her side of the family, and of early days in the Majors -- Rose Hill area.
This was written in no particular order, but more or less as the incidents came to "Mom's" mind. [...both of us have taken liberties with the order of stories and chapters... - RRS]
The enclosed pictures were taken of Grandma Higgin's homestead in the summer of 1967. The house is located five miles south and one mile west of Poole, Nebraska. At this time the house is just under one hundred years old.
- Allen Stover [footnote #1]
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Dear Nancy, You said you would like to trace the Ewer ancestors. I have written some of the things I know about my Grandmother. I've always wanted to go to Wisconsin where my Mother was born. I wish you could go through the house where she lived. It is nothing short of queer, I haven't been there for fifty years or so. There is a pantry off the kitchen which Grandma Ewer called the "butry." In England the place we call a pantry was the butler's quarters, therefore, the "butry." The kitchen is in a bank with the kitchen windows on the South, upstairs on the top of the bank. You can go in the kitchen door, climb the stairs and go out the front door into the front yard. The great advantage was warmth. Grandma Ewer had the windows in the kitchen filled with plants. The floor boards were about a foot wide. I asked the bachelor who lives there if there were any of the apple trees which Grandma had planted still alive. He said there was one. The next time he came in he brought six, hard as a rock, green apples-- nice big ones, but you couldn't cook them done. |
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| Ellen Wamsley Ewer was born in 1828 or 1829 in England. Her parents lived about twenty miles from Manchester. She remembered the crowning of Queen Victoria. She came to America with her parents when she was twelve years old. They settled in Wisconsin; she married Reuel Ewer. They lived in Cassville, Wisconsin. He was killed in the Civil War shortly after enlisting. They had five children, three girls-- Rosalie (May Stover's Mother), Clara (Hartford), Angelina (Williams), and two boys-- Abraham Lincoln (Cyril and Elizabeth's father), and Nicholas. Nicholas was killed in a mine in Nevada. | ||
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Higgins was such a disagreeable man that they separated and he went to Kearney to live with a daughter by a former marriage. I can remember when I was just a little girl, Grandmother's barn burned. I was so frightened, as it burned at night, no reason for it, and everyone thought that Higgins came out from Kearney and set the fire. [The Higgins' feud] Grandmother Higgins died at 68 years of age of a stroke. She is buried at Majors (Cedar Creek). She and Higgins had one son, Sam. Her children went to school in a sod school house a little ways South of Majors Cemetery on the East side of the road. [footnote #4] |
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Grandmother was doctor, nurse, etc. at many births in the community. There was only one house between Cedar Creek settlement and Kearney and the only means of transportation was a team and wagon. Later they had spring wagons which was a lighter made vehicle. One party making the trip to Kearney often got groceries for all the community. There were no canned vegetables or fruit, dried fruit instead, flour, sugar, wild game, rabbits, deer, antelope and prairie chickens for meat. They even made the shot gun shells. They bought powder and shot and felt wadding to keep the shot in the shell casings. Women made men's shirts and overalls, baked all the bread, washed on a wash board, and made their soap. (The good old days?) When anyone butchered a pig all the neighbors got a piece of fresh meat. Indians often passed through, begging for food or corn for their ponies-- stealing it if they were not watched. Everyone burned cowchips and there had been a lot of buffalo through here so they gathered buffalo chips for fuel. (I think the pioneers where just as happy as we are in the push button age.) I forgot to mention the women dried sweet corn, covered it with a thin material called "mosquito bar" to keep the flies off. Those who could afford it covered the bottom half of their windows with it so the windows could be opened in Summer. The flies were so bad that when women had a threshing crew or corn shellers someone stood by the table with a small branch or twigs and shooed the flies away from the table while the men ate. I can remember that very well, it was always my job. The only Doctor around was Dr. Neely, who lived south of Haven's Chapel. People had to go and get him which took hours when someone was sick. That was in Grandmother Ewer's day. Since it was so far to the Doctors, the people had home remedies for colds, etc. Grandmother had horehound growing in her garden. It was a bushy plant 1 1/2 or 2 feet tall, leaves were gray. She boiled the leaves and stems to be used for a cough. It tasted like horehound candy, so it wasn't bad to take. The home remedy for sore throat and croup was skunk oil. They fried the fat from a skunk and used it to rub on the throat and chest. It had an odor, but not real "skunky." Onions fried in this fat and put on the chest and covered with a flannel rag was a "sure fire" remedy. Women in my grandmother's day dried apples. Peel and slice apples real thin and with needle and thread string them and hang them up to dry. Grandfather used to sing a song, but all of it that I can remember is "Tramp on my corns and tell me lies, but don't feed me dried apple pies." We also had dried peaches and apricots, both much better than dried apples and the dried corn is delicious. |
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Another old time idea was preparing the wash water. Mother would send one of us to Grandmother Higgins for a bucket of wood ashes. She put the ashes in a flour sack, then put that sack in another flour sack, tied it tight and put it in the boiler. When the water got hot a dirty scum raised on top, you skimmed that off and the water was ready. You had to use wood ashes which were supposed to contain some chemical which would "break" the water. They had lye which was supposed to soften the water. We bought coffee in heavy paper bags, one pound each. It was the whole coffee bean and had to be ground. Every family had a coffee mill, a wooden box with burrs, a small drawer to catch the coffee as you turned a small handle on top. It was the signal to get up in the morning when you heard the coffee grinder. My mother bought McLaughlins or Arbuckle brand coffee. There was also Lion Bros. brand. The first two named had a heavy cardboard paper doll in each package. I used to trade dolls with the other girls if we had two alike. A visitor we had when I was small was the "pack peddlers," so called because they carried their goods in a pack on their back. They sold pins, needles, thread, shoe buttons too, lace and a few pieces of calico. They walked around the country tho sometimes drove and old horse hitched to a rickety old cart. Many times women locked the door and hid until they would go on. Most of them were Syrians. In warm weather they slept in straw or hay stacks and would give 6 spools of thread for some bread and coffee. One time one of them asked for breakfast and my mother said she could fry him two eggs and he said "fry them in butter, I don't care for lard." Mother was very disgusted. We often saw prairie schooners drive by, usually going West. One family started for Colorado with a sick man. He had what was called "consumption" at that time. It was a lung disease. Colorado was supposed to be much better for helping the disease, but her man died on the way, so she turned around and brought him home for burial. There were no undertakers in those days and caskets were made at home. Babies and children's caskets were lined with white muslin. When anyone died in the community the neighbors offered to sit up with the body. They wrung cloths out of alum water or salt water and spread over the face to keep it from discoloring. They had to change the cloth real often clear up to the time of the funeral. Some farmers were fortunate enough to own a spring wagon, a much easier vehicle to ride in and they would offer the use of it for the funeral. A few years later there was a horse drawn hearse in Ravenna. Black horses were used. Then laws were passed that bodies must be embalmed as stories were told of people being buried alive when they were in a "trance," as they called it then, probably what is called a coma now. |
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Women did not wear colors, black for good dress, navy blue or gray for everyday, some with a small white stripe. All wore black stockings. If there was a grandma in the family she knit wool stockings for winter wear. The feet in the cotton stockings would wear out first and we could buy a pair of feet to sew on at the ankle. The seam did not show, covered up by the high shoes. Babies wore white only and a sweater or sacque as they were called was knit or crocheted. There wasn't much entertainment-- a picnic in summer on the 4th of July, and oyster supper in winter at the school house, but they did hitch up a team and drive to the neighbors and spend the day. The men playing horseshoe or checkers, and the women crocheting lace or cutting and sewing carpet rags. We went to town on Saturday but did not stay long as we drove a team 12 miles to town. In winter we had heated bricks or a soap-stone heated to keep our feet warm. We ate lunch in town-- excellent buns, minced ham, coffee and a piece of pie for fifteen cents. The buns were piled on a plate, so was the minced ham (some called it mule meat) and there was also catsup and mustard. The pie wasn't good, but the buns were delicious. You could eat all you wanted. We didn't have many books. Some paper back novels (not for kids). We usually got a storybook for Christmas. The school books were dull, no pictures-- what pictures there were very poor. They couldn't draw a pig to look like a pig-- horses and chickens were no better. Schools were not graded, you were in the 2nd, 3rd, 4th or 5th reader. No age limit and young men came to school about 3 months in the winter after the corn was picked. They wore felt boots and would put their feet up on the shoulders of whoever sat in front of them. The lunch buckets sat in the hall and they would be frozen by noon. Most all walked to school, even tho some walked two and a half miles. No one rode a horse when I went to school. We walked about a half mile. Parents usually brought the children if it was bitter cold or a hard north wind. My brother went early and built the fire and was paid a dollar a month. (a nickel for each fire) I think the winters were longer as we had three day blizzards every winter. A Mrs. Davis lost her life in a snow storm in 1873. The lived about 2 1/2 miles north of Majors. Her husband had gone for supplies and she got frightened and left the dugout where they lived and started for Carpenter's about a mile away. They found her body in a snow bank. There was so much snow that the roof had caved in on the dugout. No one had much livestock-- 2 or 3 cows, 2 or 3 hogs for butchering, a few chickens-- everyone raised their own baby chicks. Everyone made their own butter, strained the milk in big stone crocks, let it set till cream raised, then skimmed it off and churned it. There was a skimmer-- heavy tin about the size of a saucer, it had a flat handle and a lot of holes in the saucer part to let the milk drain out. When the barrel churn came out it was quite an improvement over the old dasher kind. My mother made butter to sell. I wish I had her old butter mold. It held a pound and you packed the butter in real solid. It was made of heavy smooth wood. You pushed on the plunger also made of wood, it pushed the pound of butter out. On the end of the plunger was a fancy design. On my mother's it was a sheaf of wheat, and that left a pretty design on the top of the butter. Mother and a neighbor lady sold butter in Kearney. I think they got 20 or 25 cents a pound for it. They started for town at daylight in warm weather so the butter wouldn't get too soft. They wrapped it in wet cloths after taking it out of the cave. When they had lots of butter she packed it in stone jars and I think put a thick layer of salt on it to keep for use when the cows were dry. Alfalfa was not known then so they fed prairie hay and corn and in winter the butter was almost white so they put in a few drops of coloring in the cream. The coloring came in a small bottle. It was made from carrots. One day my father came home and said he heard of a new hay. They said you could cut it three times a year, stack it and feed it all winter and you didn't have to color your butter. He "didn't believe a word of it." There was a field planted just north of Major's church by a John Huston and all the men in the community had eyes on the patch of ground. That was the first alfalfa in the neighborhood. That was about 68 years ago but I remember it well. Very few girls went to high school. One could teach at 17 years of age if you could pass the county exams. Most of the girls when they got "too big to go to school" worked out. Did housework for $1.50 a week or sometimes only $1.00. Some learned dressmaking and that was a real profession for a woman.
We spent our evenings playing exciting games of dominoes, tiddley winks, Old Maid, Lotto, (that was almost like Bingo). The boys whittled out tops and chains of wood. We always gathered wild fruit - plums, grapes and choke cherries. Some one told mother you could keep plums in the cave by putting them in a stone jar, put a weight on, such as a brick or large stone and keep them under water. She used a heavy iron wheel and when she went to get the plums to cook, they were all black as lumps of coal. The acid in the plums didn't agree with the iron, it should have been brick or stone. When I was a child there was a man who lived south and east who came to the river and Cedar Creek and cut willow stems and wove clothes baskets. I had one for years that he wove for mother. I suppose it cost 50 cents. I don't know what time of year or if he cured them some way or not but they were more durable than our plastic ones today. There were a few mason glass jars for canning tomatoes, cherries or apples. Women used tin cans. They held a quart, had a lid that fit in a grove in the can and they poured melted sealing wax on top of the can to seal it. You bought the sealing wax in a cake like our paraffin of today. It was hard as a rock on the cans and you had to use a hammer to break it when you wanted to open a can. I used it 55 years ago as I couldn't get any glass jars. I almost forgot one source of entertainment. In summer a man would come to a school house in the evening with a phonograph and some records. They charged children 5 cents, I don’t remember if they charged adults the same or not. He would play his records and play any a second time if anyone requested it. I remember being at Cedar Creek school house and he had a record of a mob burning a negro at the stake and the man said the children had better go outside the room as it wasn't good for them to hear. The man would stay in the neighborhood that night, get supper and breakfast, feed for his horse, and a place to sleep for 50 cents. Another game we played was mumbly-peg. All you needed was a jack knife and a piece of soft pine board. My brother and I used the cave door till Dad discovered what was hacking up the door. We opened the big and little blades of the knife, stuck the big blade in the wood and give it a flip, if it landed and stuck on the point it counted 10, if the big blade stuck in the wood it counted 5. It was a real skillful game. When you missed it was the other players turn. Putting up ice was a winter job for the men. Many families had an ice house dug in the ground or bank, a roof that didn't leak. When the ice was 15 inches thick, sometimes as thick as 24 inches, it was ice cutting time. They had an ice saw run by hand of course, ice tongs, and ropes for equipment. Ice was cut off in large cakes 2 feet square. The pond or river was carefully marked off so the ice cakes would fit closely to help prevent melting. The cakes were loaded on wagons and hauled to the ice house where they were slid down an ice chute into the ice house and packed in straw. Once when they were ready to go to the river, I said “be careful, don’t anyone fall in.” The neighbor said “Oh you are just like Clara, that's what she said.” When the men came in to dinner I said “Where is Charley?” Someone said “He went home to change clothes -- he fell in.” The ice boxes we had were kind of a nuisance. There was a pipe in the bottom to carry off the water as the ice melted and a dish pan was kept under the box to catch the water. The pan was often forgotten and it ran over. People usually butchered 2 or 3 pigs in the spring for summer meat. The meat was put in a strong salt brine for a certain number of days, then hams and shoulders taken out and smoked. Nearly every family had a smoke house, if not they took their meat to the neighbors to be smoked. There was a certain amount of skill in doing it properly. The side meat was left in the brine and got so salty it had to be sliced and brought to a boil, that water poured off, and then fried. No, it wasn't very tasty, but it was food. Coarse salt was used, no such thing as table salt. Salt was bought in barrels. The men made salt boxes usually fastened to the bottom of a post so some unruly cow couldn't spill it and waste it as there was no block salt. It wasn't until I was grown up that women learned to can meat. At first women were sure it wouldn't keep, but it did and the home canned beef and pork was delicious Mother used to grind meat for sausage, make it in balls, as they called them, fry it done or put it in the oven to cook. When done she put it in a stone jar and poured hot lard over it and put it in the cave. She would dig our 2 or 3 balls, break it up in the skillet, add flour and milk to make gravy. That and potatoes made a meal. They used lots of corn meal, which was cheaper than flour and made corn bread and much. How I hated that mush. They ate it with milk, tho my mother let me put on a little butter and a little bit of sugar. When our children were small, my husband said, “Now there's one thing our kids don't have to eat if they don't want to, and that's mush.” Farmers raised enough wheat to have it ground or milled to have flour for a year. Some men used to walk to Gibbon, the nearest town, one day down and back the next and carry a sack of flour. It was 20 miles for some. There used to be a flour mill about a mile east of Wood River bridge on highway 10. This was the Bearess Mill. Another at Gibbon made Sunbeam flour. You got so many sacks of flour, so much graham flour and so much bran depending on how much wheat to took to the mill to trade. The bran was fed to the milk cows. Mother sometimes cooked wheat for 2 or more hours and we ate it in place of oatmeal. However oatmeal was the only breakfast food except that despised mush. Many farmers raised a patch of cane to take to a syrup mill in the neighborhood in Cedar township. The mill was about three-fourths of a mile west of the corner north of Majors cemetery. The stalks of cane are juicy and were cut at a certain stage and hauled to the mill. A grinder run by hitching a horse to it. The horse walked round and round and the cane juice poured out in a large tank or pan. It must have been heavy tin or copper as there was no galvanized articles then. After the juice had been squeezed out a fire was kept burning under the pan and someone had to stand and stir the syrup with a long wooden paddle so it would not burn. When it had boiled down to the required thickness it was put in jugs. It was a bit stronger than today's mollasses and I wonder how it was kept free of dust, flies, ants and etc. The green cane juice was good tasting but it would make you very sick if you chewed much of it. I know from experience. My father made hominy in the winter time. He preferred white corn as he thought the hulls came off easier. Most corn was the yellow type. He shelled it, discarding bad kernels and cooked it in a large kettle, or a large pail as it swells. Most recipes removed hulls by using lye in the water it was cooked in but he used baking soda. It was boiled for hours and when hulls began to loosen he took out a quart or two, put it in clean cold water and rubbed the kernels together in his hands till the hulls were all off, then put it on the stove and cook it some more. It was very good and the water it was soaked in would jell. Butter was put in a skillet and the hominy was fried or heated. I believe it had more flavor than the hominy we buy today. Most housewives made laundry soap from the cracklings after lard was rendered as nearly everyone butchered a fat hog. Lye was used to make soap and it was hard on your hands and hard on colored clothes as the colors were not very permanent anyway. However home made soap did get the clothes clean. Most families raised a patch of sweet corn and dried corn was very good. Dried beef was also made at home by putting a piece of beef in strong brine for a certain length of time and then hang it in the smoke house. Corned beef was also made, but I do not remember just how it was prepared except that it was put in a brine also. All kinds of wild fruit was used for jelly and wild plums were cooked for sauce. Another food we often had was salt cod fish. We could buy it in a piece, a pound or more, and it was very salty. A slice or chunk was broken off and put to soak in a large kettle of water to remove the salt. It was then mashed up and a milk gravy made. The cod fish was sometimes put in mashed potatoes which were then made into patties and fried and that with home made bread and butter was a meal. I did not like cod fish and still shudder at the name. My father often bought a small wooden pail of herring fish packed in salt brine so they too had to be soaked out before they could be cooked. The insides had been removed and the heads were off but they had to have the scales scraped off and were very bony. The meat was always looked over very carefully before given to small children. The fish were rolled in flour before frying. (my father preferred corn meal). When the pail was empty it was used as a “foot-tub,” but must be kept full of water or it would dry out and fall to pieces. Wash tubs were also wooden and had to have water in to prevent drying out. Iron bands top, bottom and center held them together. Everyone had rhubarb which was supposed to keep if packed in cold water-- the acid supposed to preserve it. Gooseberries were also supposed to keep this way, but they turned hard as rocks and were impossible to cook them until they were soft. Gardens were a problem as there was no way to water them and we had hot winds that wilted all vegetation. Potatoes were usually planted in a “draw” (low spot) and sometimes a heavy rain would drown them out or bury them deep in the mud. When a person became real sick someone went for the Doctor who lived south of Haven's Chapel a mile or more. As there were no telephones someone went on horse back or drove a team to bring the Doctor. Two or three older women in the neighborhood served as “mid wives” and you went after whoever lived closest to you. My grandmother Higgins served in many such cases. I can remember a neighbor's little boys coming to school with the news of a baby brother at their house. The first question of course was “where'd you get him?” “Oh Grandma Higgins brought him.” “Where did she get him?” “Under the bridge.” I was about 6 years old and I wanted a sister so very much so every time I went to Grandmas, I looked under the bridge, but no sign of a baby. I didn't think it was fair of her not to bring one to us. The husband of a family living about 10 or 12 miles came for grandma one night. She stayed an hour or more after the baby came and then the man hitched up the team and brought her home. As soon as he reached home a neighbor who was staying with the wife rushed out and told him the baby was bleeding at the navel. He turned around and rushed back to get Grandma Higgins. When she got there she made a “dough ball” of flour and water and bound it tightly on the baby's stomach. It stopped bleeding but the dough was left on until it dried and cracked off a little at a time and could be soaked off with wet cloths. They did not put tiny babies in a pan of water for several weeks. Neighbors came in and sat up all night with a sick person. My brother had typhoid fever and Cyril Carpenter came and stayed every other night for three weeks. When spring came and it was warm enough so a fire was not necessary my father would start a Sunday School at the school house. There was a Presbyterian church in the neighborhood but not all attended those services. There was no money to buy coal to have Sunday school in winter. The meetings were well attended and all enjoyed the fellowship and singing hymns together. I can remember meetings at Rose Hill, Cedar Creek and Star school houses. One of the men served as superintendent for the summer. My father would come in after morning chores were done and say “let's go up to Bob's or down to George's.” Mother would say “I'm baking bread but I'll take it along.” You knew the neighbor would have the kitchen stove fired up as that was the only method of heat. When they came home in the afternoon you left a loaf of fresh bread for the neighbor. The men played checkers all day or if it was a nice warm winter day they pitched horse shoes. |
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The Wash Board |
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We did not have a washing machine till I was ten years old. Just a wash board. A German family moved in a quarter of a mile West of us. One day when my mother was going to do the family washing, she got sick, so my father went over and asked the German woman if she would help out. She could not speak English, but her man could a little, and he said yes. The wooden tubs were on a bench in the old shed store room, water hot on the kitchen stove. The woman rubbed the soiled spots on the clothes between her hands using home-made soap that would take the skin off of anything. Mother noticed that the woman was not using the washboard so when the woman was out mother put the washboard in the tub thinking she hadn’t seen it. When the woman came in, she took the board out and stood it against the wall. Then, mother wondered if she knew what it was for, so she put it in the tub and rubbed a shirt up and down. The poor woman jumped up and down and squealed for joy! Imagine getting thrilled over a washboard! She sent her man over that evening to ask "What you call that 'ting? Where you get it? How much it cost?" The cost was 15 cents. She probably asked 25 or 30 cents for her work.After that the German woman came to mother every day for an English lesson. She would point to things and mother would tell her what it was called in English. She would repeat it over and over and remembered it the next time she came back. She helped mother many times and was a very good friend and neighbor. |
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One day at school a man drove by that none of us knew and this little German girl said "Oh: dot's Uncle Mike, I can see it on the dog." [I don't get it - RRS] |
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The Majors Post Office |
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No mention of Majors or Cedar Creek would be quite complete without the mention of the Carpenters, who boasted the first frame house, and the first cook stove. The first Sunday School was organized and Mrs. Carpenter also taught the first school in the upstairs room of her home. In 1879 a post office desk was installed in the Carpenter home, named Majors, in honor of Tom Majors who was a Nebraska congressman. The income from that office was nine dollars in the first year and was never more than thirty dollars in any one year. Mrs. Carpenter bore the burden of the office but 'Grand-sir' enjoyed the many it brought in for her to feed and he to visit with. |
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| “The two Postoffices on 57216 (must have been the route number) will soon be discontinued. Then free delivery will be in order. The Post office at Majors is discontinued. Mr. Carpenter who has been postmaster over 22 years, ever since the office has been in existence, has resigned and no one willing to take the place so the Department discontinued the office. Those who have not changed their address will find their mail at Prairie Center. |
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| “The Postmaster at that place has also resigned but has not received his discharge and that office will be discontinued unless some one is found to be the next Postmaster.” “The Post office known as Majors has been discontinued over two months, yet papers, a bushel or more come as far as Prairie Center every week.” “The mail failed again to come the 1st, to the detriment and worriment of the Postmaster. The patrons of the office were disappointed and put to trouble. Some were expecting important mail, others looking for mail from sick friends. The government pays to have the mail carried promptly and in order. The uncertain and haphazard ways has long been persisted in and will cause the throwing up of the office.” (no date) “Mrs. Ora McConnell, Department Postmaster gives satisfaction being general and accommodating. She is located at Pool’s Siding.” (no date) “The mail from Kearney just rolls here. If it didn’t have to go around Robin Hood's barn to get here we would get it before it was stale.” “The Rail Road Co. put in a siding so W. W. Pool could ship cattle from his ranch so the place was named Pool’s Siding.” (the name changed to Poole in 1906.) (those items are copied exactly as they are in the old scrap book.) [ See Poole in the past, or Pool's Siding] | |||
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The Centennial Flag |
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In 1876 the women on Cedar Creek made a flag to be displayed at the 4th of July picnic which was held in a nice grove of trees on Cedar Creek about three fourths of a mile east of Majors cemetery near the Carpenters. Grandmother Higgins helped make the flag which is faded now but is kept in a show case at Fort Kearney. The pattern for the flag was drawn by J. E. Miller who was one of the Cedar Creek pioneers. There was no such thing as a flag pole at the picnic grounds so the flag was hung on a wild plum bush. |
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Pioneer Gun Club |
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[I recall a tragic story told by Gram or Dad of two brothers (or cousins) that were hunting; one was crouched sighting in on some game, raised up and was accidentally shot dead from behind by his brother. - RRS] | ||
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Apparently, wild game was plentiful. May Stover recalled her father shooting prairie chickens off the roof of their barn and also told that Bert [Stover] and my brother, Earl, made a dam across the south branch of the creek, Southeast a little ways from A.J.'s [Stover] house. Also a dam in our pasture. Ducks stopped and shooting took place, no limit, no license. [from a separate letter - RRS] |
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![]() The Sand Hill Hunting Trip |
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Every fall in early November several men including my father loaded three or four wagons with food, bedding, a tent, straw, and grain for teams and started for the big hunt. This was not a Gun Club affair. My father always went on this trip. They often went as far west as Dunning, Nebr., where there were plenty of deer, antelope, prairie chickens and grouse. They dressed the game and if it was not cold enough to freeze it was salted generously and put in brine when they got home. After it had been in the brine the required length of time it was taken out and smoked. My father had a smoke house and let the neighbors use it. We hear of hickory smoked meat but my father used apple or cherry branches. If a branch died or broke off in a wind storm it was saved for the smoke house. Fresh meat was fried well done, put in a stone jar and melted lard poured over it. Not the best meat in the world but it was food and a way of keeping it. Hunters shot lots of rabbits and prairie chickens and sold them to hotels and restaurants would buy them. Grandfather Stover shipped quail and prairie chickens to Omaha. Rabbits were dressed and hung on the clothes line to freeze (out of the reach of dogs and cats) then put in kegs or wooden boxes and buried deep in a straw stack. They would stay frozen a long time. |
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Water Wells |
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There were no windmills. The water in those days was pulled from the well by a rope and pulley... Wells where dug by hand 20 to 30 feet deep, ours was 28 feet deep. When a well was needed several neighbors came and helped with the digging. A spade was used to loosen the dirt and a table saucer used to fill a pail with dirt which was pulled up and emptied. The old-timers thought there was sometimes poison gas in a well hole - they called it "damps." No doubt it was lack of oxygen buy they were frightened and sometimes lowered a lighted lantern, if the flame went out no one went down that day. They also would lower a bird cage as nearly all had a canary. If the bird did not collapse, the hole was considered safe. A young man collapsed in a well a mile or so south of where the old Star school was. His father went down to help him and they both died in the well. Their name was Dudley. The girls, Hettie and Rena were good friends of my mother. |
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Mr. and Mrs. W. W. Pool came to Nebraska from Pennsylvania in 1876 and settled on what is still know as the Pool Ranch and were acquainted with some of the difficulties of pioneer life and their life story is part of our countries history. Mr. Pool committed suicide in the cemetery at Ravenna in 1898. His wife died two weeks later in childbirth. She was not expected to live through the birth, the reason for his taking his own life, so rumor said. [ See Poole in the past] |
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| The Automobile | |||
| I think it was 1902 or 1903 that the first automobile was seen on our country roads. A Doctor in Kearney used to drive out to his farm a mile south of Poole. No one wanted to be on the road as horses were terrified and there was many a run-away. Men usually got out and stood by the horses heads to try to quiet them. If possible they would drive in some ones yard or even out in a field to avoid meeting a car. The man driving the car would usually stop but my father shouted “Get that confounded infernal machine out of here.” A number of farmers vowed they would never set foot in one of those machines. Cattle in pasture would panic and run as fast and as far as they could. Not all roads were passable for a car. There were deep ruts from wagon wheels and a high ridge in the center that the autos couldn't clear. Many an early car got hung up on “high center.” Not all autos had lights so there was no night driving. Then carbide lights were put on cars. The first car I rode in had no top, and no doors. Later they were equipped with side curtains. Cars had tops then and the curtains had squares of ising glass for light, but the curtains did not keep out much cold and couldn't be snapped tight enough to keep out the wind. |
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| Livery Stables | |||
| Another thing that would be a novelty for the young people in 1965 would be the hitching racks or hitching posts that lined both sides of the street in all the towns. If you were only staying in town a short time you tied your team on the street, but if staying all day you went to a livery stable and a man unhitched the team, watered them and put them in the barn or stable as it was called and fed them hay and grain. The cost-- 15 cents. Anyone who let a team or horse stand on the street all day without feed or water was not thought much of, especially if it was in winter. The man who run the livery barn had teams or single horse and buggy for rent if you wished to drive somewhere. | |||
| The Poor House | |||
| In those early days there was the county “poor house” or “poor farm” where people were sent when they could no longer work and had no money. The poor house was 12 miles south and a mile west of Poole. The old men helped raise hogs and cattle and farmed the land. It was a large farm. There are several graves in a group of trees on this road north of the Wood River. The lot is fenced and men who died at the poor farm are buried there. It is covered with cotton wood trees now. It was considered a disgrace to have to go to the “poor house,” even songs were written about it. “Over the Hill to the Poor House.” The farm was partly self supporting. It was county property and there was no charge to anyone who went there except you were required to help all you were able. |
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| Threshing Time | |||
| We kids always enjoyed the excitement of threshing time. Several teams of horses or mules were hitched to the power machine and they walked round and round in a circle which made a wonderful race track after the threshing crew moved on. We had strict orders to stay away from the horses and not to go near the tumbling rod, a long length of iron which was turning very fast and made the thresher or sheller run. The grain was cut by binder and the bundles tied with twine. The bundles were pitched on the “table” of the threshing machine by a man on each side of the table. A boy stood on each side of the man feeding the machine. The boys cut the twine on the bundles with jack knives. They had to work fast. Later the horses were replaced by a steam engine. That meant that another man to drive the water wagon to haul water for the “steamer.” My brother and I always wished our Dad would get a threshing outfit with a steamer to do our grain but he didn't for a long time. “New fangled machinery” didn't appeal to him. It took quite a crew of men as there would be four men with hayracks hauling bundles in from the field where they had been shocked. Three men on the strawstack and two hauling grain from the machine to the granary. A “water monkey” to haul water or to ride the horsepower to keep the teams going evenly. The man who owned the outfit just walked around and supervised. There was usually some grain spilled and shelled out where the machine sat. It was carefully gathered up for chicken or hog feed. Farmers had straw sheds for their cattle. They set poles in the ground and put poles across the top for a roof and had the man set the threshing machine so straw would cover the shed. It made a nice warm shelter in winter. The south end usually left open, or part of it at least. | |||
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There were a lot of sod houses lived in when I was a child but I cannot remember ever seeing a sod house being built. They were cool in summer and warm in winter. One April Fool's day my brother filled a coffee sack with dirt and tied it with a string and laid it out in the road near our house. The first man who came along stopped his team, got out of his wagon, and brought the package to the house thinking my folks had lost it. Mother told him it was and April fool's joke of my brother's. He laughed and said he would put it back. The next man to drive along was not as honest. He jumped out of the wagon, grabbed the package and whipped up his team and drove on fast as he could. We always wondered what he said when he opened up his sack of “coffee.” Years before ice was used, milk, butter and cream was put in containers set in a bucket and a rope tied to the bail of the bucket and it was lowered into the well hole to keep it fresh. Later years most people had a deep cave and could then keep potatoes from freezing. They also hung cabbage heads up side down and they kept a long time. We could buy maple syrup (if we could afford it). It came in a large cake like our baking chocolate of today. It was maple sugar and we broke it up, poured hot water on it and brought it to a boil. It was very good but mostly we had sorghum on our corn bread and pancakes. I cant remember just when corn syrup came on the market, but I do remember how very good I thought it was. |
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In 1909 I had a lot of tomatoes to can and there were not any glass jars, as the store had sold out. My mother said I could use tin cans and if I opened and emptied them at once, carefully washed and dried so no rust formed they could be used a second time. Mother's Uncle from Wisconsin was visiting and I had tomatoes for dinner. He said “Did you can those?” and I told him that I had. He said “Allright, I'll eat them, but I don't eat nuthin' out of a tin can.” They didn't kill him-- he lived years after that. |
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[Mother's Uncle Charlie is Ellen's younger brother, Charles Wamsley... see also
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| By-gone school Days
[also see Buffalo Tales issue by the same name] |
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| When I ask my grandchildren what they had for lunch at school today, this was the menu: Hot dogs, mashed potatoes, buttered corn fruit, cookie and milk.
I think back to our school lunches in the 1890s. We all carried a tin syrup pail or possibly a “store bought” pail. There was no waxed paper or paper napkins to wrap sandwiches in and people were very cautious about putting food next to tin for fear of tin poisoning so a piece of clean white cloth was placed in the bottom of our pail. Our sandwiches were two large slices of home made bread, one slice spread with home made butter and the other with sorghum. |
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Our desks were double, two pupils occupied each one, you could choose your seat mate but you better be quiet or the teacher would change your position. Our desks sloped and there was a groove along the top of each side to keep pencils from rolling off. In the center between the grooves was an ink-well-- a hole containing a small glass jar that held probably a tablespoon of ink. It had a sliding metal lid flush with the top of the desk. Before we had penmanship the teacher had one of the older boys check the ink-wells and fill them from a large bottle of ink kept in her desk. If both slices had sorghum on it would soak into the bread and be a soggy mess. I cannot remember having meat sandwiches. We had jelly made from wild plums, grapes or choke cherries. Peanuts were cheap so now and then we had a few peanuts in our pail. We sometimes had a hard boiled egg with salt for it wrapped in a little paper. The eggs were boiled and cooled, not shelled as a boiled egg can sure smell up a pail with a lid on. No food was wrapped in a newspaper as the ink in the paper might be poison. My brother and I were a little more fortunate than some as my father had set out an orchard so we could have an apple but I doubt if today's boys and girls would eat them as they were not Jonathon, Winesaps or Delicious but Ben Davis, a cooking apple. In the fall we had a handful of wild plumbs in our lunch pail, an orange at Christmas time only. In the winter it was so cold the lunches would freeze if left in the hall, so we were allowed to bring our pails in and set them under or around the stove. |
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| Poems in our school books | |
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The Vest
At school the boys did laugh and shout While coming home, I looked around It was that I might overtake And grandma said Without a doubt Oh! Mother how pretty the moon looks to-night If I were up there with you and my friends We'd call to the stars to keep out of our way There we would rock in the beautiful skies |
Bringing Home the Cows Out of the clover and blue-eyed grass Under the willows and over the hill Only a boy, his father had said But after the evening work was done Across the clover and through the wheat Thrice since then Have the lanes been white For news had come to the lonely farm The summer day grew cool and late Brindle, Ebony, Speckle, and Bess Loosely swung in the idle air For Southern prisons will sometimes yawn The great tears sprang to their meeting eyes |
| Rosalie Ewer Clayton | ||
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While Mother was still at home the grasshoppers came. Grandma said to grab the bedding and cover the garden-- not the onions as the grasshoppers wouldn't eat them. After the hoppers moved on all that was left of the onions were the holes in the ground where they had been. Mother and her step sisters went to school in a sod school house a mile and half north of where they lived. Mother had three step sisters as Grandma Ewer had married Samuel Higgins who had three girls by a previous marriage. Two of the girls went to school. One day a heavy rain put a foot or two of water over the road and Uncle Abe, Mother's brother, carried Mother safely across and went back for his step sister Nancy. When he got in the middle of the stream he dropped her. He claimed it was an accident but Mother always doubted it as the two didn't get along. Their Step-father was angry when they came home from school and announced the earth was round. He said the earth did not turn over every twenty four hours. He set a pail of water out to prove his point. If the water was spilled he would believe that the earth was round and rotated. I told my Mother I would have sneaked out and tipped the pail over. Mother said, “Oh, no you wouldn't or you would have gotten a good beating.” Mother married Joe Clayton May 8, 1879. They lived on the 40 acres that Grandma Higgins had taken in her child's name. Raymond Earl was born July 9, 1882. I, Mary May was born May 5, 1887. Earnest Lewis was born March 4, 1890, and Bruce was born June 12, in either 1894 or 1896. [1894 - RRS] We went to school at Rose Hill. Earl went out west to work in the wheat fields in Washington. When harvest was over he went to work in a copper mine in Butte, Montana-- The Anaconda. He went into the mine too soon after an explosion and was overcome by gas. He was 26 years old. He was buried in Majors cemetery in 1906. Ernest married Ruth McConnel and lived on the home place for a number of years. Baby Bruce lived only ten days. He is at Majors cemetery. [Bert Stover was on that same trip with Earl. - RRS] Years after my Mother was gone my Aunt Liz Ewer told me that my Mother had twin girls. I know she lost babies as she once remarked to me she wished there had been a cemetery at the time so “Our babies could have been buried there instead of out in the trees.” I suppose they were born prematurely, but people did not discuss such matters as freely then as they do now.. I wish since two pair of girls have come into the family that I had known more about it. My Mother died in February of 1913 of gall trouble. Now days an operation would have saved her. Mother's brother, Abraham (Uncle Abe) lived with my folks for several years. Indians often came by and stopped to beg. One day when some Indians stopped, Uncle Abe went in the house and got Earl, who was a sweet fat baby several months old, and took him out to show him to the Indians as they had a papoose with them. Mother was so frightened as she knew they would come back and steal him. The Indians made a great fuss over the white baby, put his little hands against their faces and mother gave him a good scrubbing when she got him back in the house. |
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Through a Veteran's paper, the National Tribune, he located his father. He had also been in the Army both in the Civil War and the Mexican War. He had lost a leg in the Mexican war. While comparing experiences, they found that they had both served in the same regiment and had fought in some of the same battles, neither realizing the other was there. Joseph went back to Indiana to see his father who had married again and had a second family. He met his half sister, and did not like her, but his father told him where his other sisters were and he went to see them in later years, but as he was only 6 years old when he last saw them, they were as strangers and not “family.” [footnote #7] My father had not been allowed to go to school and could not read or write when he went into the army. He had his tent mate write to the Elliott girls, as they had been good to him. One night his tent mate said “I'm going to teach you to read and write,” and he did. He learned to write very well and read the newspapers from front to back. He was also very good in the every day math of that day. He kept in touch with his sisters as he called them until his death in 1924. After the war my Father came to Nebraska after spending some time in Iowa. I believe it was in 1871 or 1872. When the X-ray machines first came out the Doctor in Ravenna wanted to X-ray Father's chest to see if he could locate the bullet from the civil war days but Father wouldn't let him. He said “that bullet isn't bothering me and I'm not going to bother it.” He told me the Doctor would want to dig it out and he didn't want that, so he carried the bullet to his grave. Two of Father's favorite stories about the early pioneer days were the “Soup Stone” and the story of the man crossing the Nebraska prairie with the team of oxen. He told of this man who was heading west across Nebraska with a team of oxen. It got so hot one afternoon that one of the oxen died from the heat. As you couldn't let anything go to waste the man proceeded to skin the dead ox. While he was skinning it, a blizzard came up out of the north and the other oxen froze to death. --- Mother's step sisters were Tilly, Luncinda, and Nancy [Higgins]. Tilly had a baby before marriage. The baby died and is buried under a pine tree on Grandma Higgins place. Lucinda lived near Kearney. We visited back and forth when I was a child. I still write to one of her sons, a Frank Israel who lives in North Platte. Uncle Abe served as the community barber, and one time he was cutting Clarence McConnell's hair. Clarence was ten or twelve years old at the time. He run into a gob of something in his hair, so he asked Clarence what it was in his hair. Clarence said “Oh, Bertie (his brother about two years older), the darn fool, hit me over the head with the 'lasses spoon.” Bertie and Clarence remained bachelors and farmed together for years. They were still squabbling sixty years later. |
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I don't know too much about the Stover side of the family, but I do have the following information: Daniel Stover, your great, great grandfather was born at Oneida New York. His wife's name was Hanna and they had two boys, Albert and a younger brother Clark. Albert would be your great Grandfather. This information came from the records at Pleasant Prairie, Wisc. where they evidently moved to from New York. [footnote #8] The records at Paris New York show John Lucas, 54 (He would have been born in about 1775), his wife Elizabeth and their children John, Thomas, James, and Elizabeth Ann were all born in Wales. Elizabeth Ann (grandmother Stover) married Albert Stover at Paris, New York. [Paris, Wisconsin, footnote #9 - RRS] [Gram is passing along some information that had been recently researched at the time of her writing. She did have previous knowledge of Albert's brother Clark, a mail carrier in Chicago, and a whispy knowledge of their father who was a circuit rider preacher. I'm puzzled as to why she didn't mention Albert's sister, Martha Stover (Mrs. Tom) Hutchinson, a nearby member of the Stover family. She was previously aware only of Elizabeth's maiden name. - RRS] |
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Poole, Nebraska at one time boasted of implement dealer Tom McConnell, two cream stations, Frank Tisdale's harness shop, your Grandfathers blacksmith shop, two elevators, three grocery stores, a drug store, a butcher shop. In the old Schneider building at the end of the street the Enevoldsen girls ran a restaurant and had sleeping rooms. There were dances held upstairs in a hall and church suppers were also held there. The Union Pacific rail road came through town. Joe Mahoney was the depot agent. Some of the records of the village board meetings are quite amusing today. Your Grandfather [Clayton] and Joe Mahoney were on the village board and they passed an ordinance forbidding such dances as the “Bunny Hug,” “Turkey Trot,” etc., as indecent and immoral. I am wearing your great Grandmother's wedding ring-- the date written inside is Sept 7, 1862. Todd Stover is to have it when I am gone. [This is the wedding date of Albert J. Stover and Elizabeth Ann Lucas - RRS] |
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| Some of these things may sound pretty fantastic to you but they are all true. | ||
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